Youths must be hardworking or smart working



a man striving to push a box and a man rolling a ball easily...
Don't work hard work Intelligently

I love the Americans for one thing, they tends to be smart working....
Take for example, a man who works as a laborer in a site for the whole day and was given 2,000 naira compared to a man who worked in an office, and get up to 50,000 naira instantly with the help of his pen...
Who works smart and who work hard?....
Hard Work and Smart Work:

Read the story of a two young girl named;
Mukesh and Anil,

They joined a company together a few months after their graduation from university.

After a few years of work, their Manager promoted Mukesh to a position of Senior Sales Manager, but Anil remained in his entry level Junior Sales Officer position. Anil developed a sense of jealousy and disgruntlement, but continued working anyway.

One day Anil felt that he could not work with Mukesh anymore. He wrote his resignation letter, but before he submitted it to the Manager, he complained that Management did not value hard working staff, but only promoted only the favored!

The Manager knew that Anil worked very hard for the years he had spent at the company; even harder than Mukesh and therefore he deserved the promotion. So in order to help Anil to realize this, the Manager gave Anil a task.

“Go and find out if anyone is selling water melons in town?"

Anil returned and said, "yes there is someone!"

The Manager asked, "how much per kg?" Anil drove back to town to ask and then returned to inform the Manager; "they are R13.50 per kg!"

The Manager told Anil, "I will give Mukesh the same task that I gave you. Please pay close attention to his response!"

So the Manager said to Mukesh, in the presence of Anil ; “Go and find out if anyone is selling water melons in town?"

Mukesh went to find out and on his return he said: "Manager, there is only one person selling water melons in the whole town. The cost is R49.00 each water melon and R32,50 for a half melon. He sells them at R13.50 per kg when sliced. He has in his stock 93 melons, each one weighing about 7kg. He has a farm and can supply us with melons for the next 4 months at a rate of 102 melons per day at R27.00 per melon; this includes delivery.

The melons appear fresh and red with good quality, and they taste better than the ones we sold last year. He has his own slicing machine and is willing to slice for us free of charge.

We need to strike a deal with him before 10am tomorrow and we will be sure of beating last year's profits in melons by R223 000.00. This will contribute positively to our overall performance as it will add a minimum of 3.78% to our current overall sales target.

I have put this information down in writing and is available on spreadsheet. Please let me know if you need it as I can send it to you in fifteen minutes."

Anil was very impressed and realized the difference between himself and Mukesh. He decided not to resign but to learn from Mukesh.

As we begin this fresh year, let this story help us keep in mind the importance of going an extra mile in all our endeavors.

You won't be rewarded for doing what you're meant to do, you only get a salary for that! You're only rewarded for going an extra mile, performing beyond expectations.


Smart work brings reward..
According to the story you've just read,
If you tends to be hard working 
You will never go extra miles,
Why? Because you will be too tired to do that, you've wasted all your energy working hard all day....
But 
Working smart will prompt you to go extra miles.....

Smart workers work with mind,
While hard workers work with their body.....
It's now up to you to choose which one you want...

Youths and Success

        
            
             Have A Positive Mindset
The road to success is not straight, for you to become successful, you have to believe in yourself, you have to have a positive mindset.

That reminds me of the story of a young boy who was crippled by beaten, he thought in himself he couldn't make it that he needs to die, but an elderly man told him, he his not born this way, he can train himself to become whole again, the word of this old man motivated him.

This young boy, whenever alone he would practice yoga, he did it for several years before all his body was set back to normal....

Nothing is impossible, it all depends on your mindset, it all depends on your thinking either positive or negative. 

Change can occur instantly, 

Henry David Thoreau said;

 "Things do not change, we change".

Our success can never be changed, our potentials can never be changed, it can only be affected.

If you have a positive mindset about your success, then you will surely have them, because you think positively,

But if you have a negative one, a doubting mind, then you won't have it....

The Success remains the same but our mentality can affect it either in positive or negative way.
To acquire success as a youth, you need to exercise a lot of patience.

If i had eight hours to chop down a tree I'd spend six hours sharpening my axe, rather than spending six hours to cut a tree all because the axe is not sharpened...
We all want to become successful, everything is about time....
Do not compare your life to others people journey, because he did something and he his successful doesn't mean you will also do it and become successful, wait for your success to come...

Napoleon Hill (born October 26, 1883 – November 8, 1970) was an American self-help author. Napoleon Hill is considered to have influenced more people into success than any other person in history. He has been perhaps the most influential man in the area of personal success.
He once said that; 
"There are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge, both poverty and riches are the offspring of thought.”

Your thought, your mindset determines your success.
Believe in yourself, and walk towards the success, never looks for shortcuts to your success,
Stay focus and the Success you visualize will come your way.

Youths and talents



Nigeria youths are no longer patriotic
Nigeria youths are no longer patriotic



Nigeria youths are talented with gifts, we are talented with Ideas...
In Nigeria, you will see youths with great visions with great Ideas, and eventually died without putting the Ideas into reality...
  But come to think of it 
If we continue blaming our leaders for not giving us access to some basic things we need,
I don't think there is any doubt about that, failure is not far from us....
No one can be held responsible for your misfortune,
If you keep on saying Nigeria is bad, I can't even study in the university I wish to study,
Getting job is favouritism...
And many more......
Our Ideas will keep on dying within us, cause the mind we are meant to think of making it has been used to think of criticizing.....

Why not use the current situation of your country as a stepping stone to your success?
During the time of Corona Virus, it is known that most people become a millionaire, most people became successful..
You can never be smarter than your enemies,
Why not use their smartness against them......

The country is bad right?
Why not open your mind and think of how to make it out, 
Rather than busy criticizing those who doesn't even know you exist....

You come from a poor background shouldn't stop you from releasing your potentials and talents to the world,
You are been underrated, 
Then you don't have to underrate yourself, Take for an example the story of a young boy named Eklavya who have passion for Archery...
He was the son of a tribal chief,and they were well known to be an Hunter...
Eklavya said to his father one day that he wants to become a disciple of the great Dronacharya, the great tutor of Archery in Hastinapura. 

His Gurukul is a magical place where ordinary boys are turned into mighty warriors. Eklavya saw his father was silent. He continued, Father, I know that we belong to the hunting tribe, but I want to be a warrior, father, not a mere hunter. So please allow me to leave home and become the disciple of Dronacharya. Eklavya’s father was troubled, for he knew that his son's ambition was not an easy one. But the chief was a loving father and he did not want to refuse his only son's wish. So the kind man gave his blessings and sent his son on his way to Drona's Gurukul. Eklavya set on his way. Soon he reached the part of the forest where Drona taught the princes of Hastinapur. In those days, there was no such system as a school, college, university or
hostel. The only place where one could get some education was a Gurukul . A Gurukul (Guru refers to teacher or master, Kul refers to his domain, from the Sanskrit word kula, meaning extended family.) is a type of ancient Hindu school in India that is residential in nature with the shishyas or students and the guru or teacher living in proximity, many a time within the same house. The Gurukul is the place where the students resided together as equals, irrespective of their social standing. The students learned from the guru and also helped the guru in his day-to-day life, including the carrying out of mundane chores such as washing clothes,  cooking, etc. The education imparted thus, was a wholesome one. Having said this much, let us now
return to Eklavya. When the boy reached Dronacharya's Gurukul, he saw that it consisted of a group of huts, surrounded by trees and an archery yard. The disciples were practicing to shoot arrows with their bows and arrows in the yard. It was an engaging sight. But Eklavya's eyes searched Drona. Where was he? Will he be able to see the man? Without Drona, all his purpose of coming here would be meaningless. But all his worries soon subsided. He did not have to wait for long. There was the man standing near a tree busy instructing a boy, who was none else than the third Pandava prince Arjuna, as Eklavya came to know later. Though Eklavya had never seen Drona before, he put his guess at work. He went near Drona and bowed. The sage was surprised to see a strange boy addressing him. Who are you? he asked. 
I am Eklavya, son of the Tribal Chief in the western part of the forests of Hastinapura. Eklavya replied. Please accept me as your disciple and teach me the wonderful art of Archery. Drona sighed. Eklavya… if you are a tribal hunter, you must be a Shudra, the lowest social community according to the Vedic Caste System. I am a Brahmin, the highest caste in the kingdom. I cannot teach a Shudra boy he said. And he’s also a Royal teacher, interrupted Prince Arjuna. Our Guru has been appointed by the King to train
us, the princes and the highborn. How dare you come inside the Gurukul and seek him? Leave! NOW! he spat  out, looking enraged that Eklavya had disturbed his practice. Eklavya was stunned at Arjuna’s behavior. He himself was the son of the chief of his clan, but he never insulted anyone below him in such a way.

He looked at Drona for some kind of support, but the sage remained silent. The message was loud and clear.

Dronacharya also wanted him to leave. He refused to teach him. The innocent tribal boy was deeply hurt by Drona’s refusal to teach him. It’s not fair! he thought miserably. God has given
knowledge to all, but man alone differentiates his kind. He left the place with a broken heart and a bitter taste in his mouth. But it could not shatter his ambition to learn Archery. He was still as
determined to learn Archery. I may be a Shudra but does it make any difference? thought he.  I am as strong and zealous as Drona’s princes and disciples. If I practice the art everyday, I can
surely become an archer. Eklavya reached his own forests and took some mud from a nearby river.

He made a statue of Dronacharya and selected a secluded clearing in the forests to place it. Eklavya did this because he faithfully believed that if he practiced before his Guru, he would become an able archer. Thus, though his Guru shunned him, he still held him in high esteem and thought of him as his Guru. Day
after day, he took his bow and arrow, worshiped the statue of Drona and started practice. In time faith, courage  and perseverance transformed Eklavya the mere tribal hunter into Eklavya the extraordinary archer. Eklavya  became an archer of exceptional prowess, superior even to Drona’s best pupil, Arjuna. One day while Eklavya is practicing, he hears a dog barking. At first the boy ignored the dog, but continuous disturbance in his practice angered him. He stopped his practice and went towards the place where the dog was barking. Before
the dog could shut up or get out of the way, Eklavya fired seven arrows in rapid succession to fill the dog’s mouth without injuring it. As a result it roamed the forests with its mouth opened. But Eklavya was not alone in his practice. He was unaware of the fact that just some distance away, the Pandava princes were also present in that area of the forest. As fate would have it, that day, they had come with their teacher, Drona, who was instructing them about some finer points of archery by making them learn in the real-life condition of the open jungle. As they were busy practicing, they suddenly chanced upon the stuffed dog, and wonder who could have pulled off such a feat of archery. Drona was amazed too. Such an excellent aim can only come from a mighty archer. he exclaimed. He told the Pandavas that if somebody was such a
good archer then he surely needed to be met. The practice was stopped and together they began searching the forest for the one behind such amazing feat. They found a dark-skinned man dressed all in black, his body besmeared with filth and his hair in matted locks. It was Eklavya. Dronacharya went up to him. Your
aim is truly remarkable! Drona praised Eklavya, and asked From whom did you learn Archery?

Eklavya was thrilled to hear Drona’s praises. How surprised he will be if he told Drona that he, in fact was his Guru! From you my Master. You are my Guru, Eklavya replied humbly. Your Guru? How can I be your Guru? I have never seen you before! Drona exclaimed in surprise. But all of a sudden he remembered something. He remembered about an eager boy who had visited his Gurukul several months ago. 

Now I remember, said he. Are you not the same hunter boy whom I refused admission in my Gurukul some months back? Yes, Dronacharya, replied the boy. After I left your Gurukul, I
came home and made a statue like you and worshipped it every day. I practiced before your image. You refused to teach me, but your statue did not. Thanks to it, I have become a good archer. Hearing this, Arjuna became angry. But you promised me that you’d make me the best archer in the world! he accused Drona. Now how can that be? Now a common hunter has become better than me! The other princes remembered their master frequently praising Arjuna that he had immense talent and will be the greatest  archer in the kingdom. They waited with bated breath. What will their teacher do now? Unable to answer Arjuna’s question, Drona remained silent. The sage too was upset that his promise to Prince Arjuna was not going to be fulfilled. He was also angry with Eklavya for disobeying him. So the sage planned to punish Eklavya. Where is your guru dakhsina? You have to give me a gift for your training, the
sage demanded. He had finally found a way to make Eklavya suffer for his disobedience.

Eklavya was overjoyed. A guru dakshina was the voluntary fee or gift offered by a disciple to his guru at the end of his training. The guru-shishya parampara, i.e. the teacher-student tradition, was a hallowed tradition in Hinduism. At the end of a shishya’s study, the guru asks for a guru dakshina, since a guru does not
take fees. A guru dakshina is the final offering from a student to the guru before leaving the ashram. The teacher may ask for something or nothing at all.

Dronacharya, I’ll be the happiest person on earth to serve you. Ask me anything and I will offer it to you as my guru dhakshina he said. I might ask something you don’t like to give me. What if you refuse  the dhakshina I want? Drona asked cunningly.

Eklavya was shocked. It was considered a grave insult and a great sin if a guru’s dakshina was refused. No!

How can I, teacher? I am not that ungrateful. I’ll never refuse anything you ask, Dronacharya, promised the unsuspecting boy.
Drona did not wait anymore. Eklavya, I seek to have your right-hand thumb as my guru dhakshina he declared. Silence befell on everyone. Everyone was shocked, even Arjuna. He looked at his teacher in horror and disbelief. How could their teacher make such a cruel demand? That too, from a mere boy?

For a moment Eklavya stood silent. Without his thumb he could never shoot arrows again. But the teacher must be satisfied. Ok Gurudev, as you wish. said he. Then, without the slightest hesitation, Eklavya drew out his knife and cut his thumb!

The princes gasped at Eklavya’s act of bravery. But the tribal boy betrayed no signs of pain, and held out his severed thumb to Dronacharya.

Here is my guru dakshina, Drona, Ekalavya said. I am happy that you have made me your disciple, even if I’m a mere Shudra hunter.

The sage was humbled. He blessed the young archer for his courage. Eklavya, even with out your thumb, you’ll be known as a great archer. I bless you that you will be remembered forever for your loyalty to your guru, Drona declared and left the forests. He was moved and grieved at his own action. But he was content that his promise to Arjuna was not broken. The Gods blessed Eklavya from above.

But despite his handicap, Eklavya continued to practice archery. How could he do so? When one is dedicated, one can make even mountains bow. With practice, Eklavya could shoot arrows with his index and middle finger and he became a greater archer than he was ever before. His renown spread far and wide. When Drona came to know this, he blessed the boy silently and begged for divine forgiveness.
And true to Drona’s blessing, Eklavya is still praised as the most loyal and brave student in the epic of Mahabharatha.
    
THE WORLD WILL SHAKE YOU.
The world will surely shake you, break you, and rate you,
But how strong you are, Is what makes you....
I need you to learn from that story,
Despite the fact that he was criticized, he still believe in himself and pursue his dream.
You have some potentials within you,
Discover your talent and make very good use of it...

The panic of growing older


The panic of growing older
The panic of growing older



The panic of growing older spreads fluttering wings from year to year....

This is a story of a young boy who pictured himself to have a great and brighter future right from when he was 10 years of age.

But at twenty, still by hope of gigantic success, time and exploration.

Remember when this man was 10, he pictured himself to have a brighter future but on getting to 20, he still hasn't fulfilled his dreams....

At 30, a sudden throb of pain
Laboratory test have nothing to show...

This young boy who have now turned to become a man soon realized how much he had wasted his time and efforts just by admiring and visualizing a future that doesn't come...
"There are some circumstances whereby everyone will be catching cold and you alone will be crying of heat"
This man found himself in the same situation,
Cause when he went to the hospital to diagonize himself laboratory test said nothing his wrong with him...
But he himself knows he his not okay...

Nothing to show the world,
Perhaps three children the world expect it of you,
No specialist efforts there...

The truth his he realized he can't pursue his dream as at 30, cause he gave up easily,
The primary assignment for everyone of us here on Earth is to b fruitful ND multiply...
That's the only assignment this man was able to fulfill...
He had three children, which there's no specialist effort in that....
Or is there any specialist efforts in giving birth? No, it is a natural thing for us to give birth or not....
This is where he thought to himself that he his a failure...

But science give hope of twice three score and ten,
But hope is not a grain of sand...

Lol, has he forgotten that;
 "hope without working towards is vanity"?

You might picture yourself to have a bright future, you might have determined to make it in life but if you ain't working towards your dreams and aspirations, if you stop trying, 
you are a failure...


Dwindles In sharp blade of expectations,
From now on the world has you ....
For what shall he profit a man that gain the whole world and lost his life, what shall he use for an exchange?

Either you are poor or rich, the world will surely have you,
The soil will surely have you for their supper....
No matter how we stay or live long on Earth we are surely foods for the termites...
It's now left to us whether we left a good reputations behind or a bad one....

He was dwindle in sharp blade of expectations..

He has been waiting for death, he has been expecting,
 cause he thought he his a failure and he will always be a failure....

Youths and unity

            
               Unity Is Strength 
No matter how strong you are, If you decided to work alone, then you will be defeated...

Samson was the strongest man in Isreal, but he was defeated by the tame of a lady all because he didn't follow the instructions of his parents, because he decided to stand alone, he doesn't want to walk in one Accord with his parents.... 

The scripture said we should never forsake the gathering of the brethren, because The tools Satan use nowadays is disunity, misunderstanding, but If you stand still in one Accord he can never has a way to disunite you...

Psalms 133:1
Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity! 

This was a statement made by David when he was on a mission to find out an habitation for God, they found it in the wood at Ephratah, and God promised them that If they would continue to obey his commandments and keep his covenant he will make the children of Isreal sit upon the throne for ever... If it were to be that David go in search of the place alone, he might have not been succeeded to find it... That's the importance of working together in unity, because unity is strength.

A divided nation can easily be trampled upon by the enemies, but the one in unity can never be divided,

The Israelites do conquer their enemies whenever they are in one Accord with God, but as soon as they divert, they will be conquered by their enemies.

 A tree can never make a forest, if you want to go far go together, but if you want to go fast go alone... Have you ever noticed that if you are in group you will be more comfortable than been alone?  The fact is, it is best for you to work in unity doing so will make you achieve your aim quickly than to be a one man mopo.

That reminds me of the story of an old farmer who lived in a village. He had four sons, o were lazy and idle. They often quarreled among themselves. The old man was very much annoyed with it.So he called his four sons and told them that since his end was near, he wanted to teach them a lesson. So he told them that since his end was near, he wanted to give them a useful piece of advice. He sent for a bundle of sticks, it was brought. He asked all his sons turn by turn to break the bundle of the sticks. All tried hard, but none of them was able to break the bundle. Then he asked one of them to untie the-bundle. This was also done immediately. Then he asked each of them to break the sticks individually. Now each one succeeded in doing so.

The old farmer then said to them, "If you live together in peace, none can harm you. But if you are divided, you will lose."


Moral:

United we stand, divided we fall.


              The power of unity

 Acts 2:1-3  

And when the day of Pentecost was fully come, they were all with one accord in one place.

And suddenly there came a sound from heaven as of a rushing mighty wind, and it filled all the house where they were sitting.

And there appeared unto them cloven tongues like as of fire, and it sat upon each of them.

That's the power of unity, walking in one Accord, in one believe, gives you the confidence and boldness to execute a task easily.


 Importance of walking in unity

1. It gives you confidence

2. It makes you achieve your aims quickly

3. It makes you move far

4. It makes you execute a task easily.

Change yourself and not the world

Everyone of us tends to change the world, to make it a better place, but the only way we can change the world is to change ourself...

That reminds me of Michael Jackson song Heal the world. If you wanna make the world a better place, then let it starts from you...


Long ago, people lived happily under the rule of a king. The people of the kingdom were very happy as they led a very prosperous life with an abundance of wealth and no misfortunes.


Once, the king decided to go visiting places of historical importance and pilgrim centres at distant places. He decided to travel by foot to interact with his people. People of distant places were very happy to have a conversation with their king. They were proud that their king had a kind heart.


After several weeks of travel, the king returned to the palace. He was quite happy that he had visited many pilgrim centres and witnessed his people leading a prosperous life. However, he had one regret.


He had intolerable pain in his feet as it was his first trip by foot covering a long distance. He complained to his ministers that the roads weren't comfortable and that they were very stony. He could not tolerate the pain. He said that he was very much worried about the people who had to walk along those roads as it would be painful for them too!


Considering all this, he ordered his servants to cover the roads in the whole country with leather so that the people of his kingdom can walk comfortably.


The king's ministers were stunned to hear his order as it would mean that thousands of cows would have to be slaughtered in order to get sufficient quantity of leather. And it would cost a huge amount of money also.


Finally, a wise man from the ministry came to the king and said that he had another idea. The king asked what the alternative was. The minister said, "Instead of covering the roads with leather, why don't you just have a piece of leather cut in appropriate shape to cover your feet?"


The king was very much surprised by his suggestion and applauded the wisdom of the minister. He ordered a pair of leather shoes for himself and requested all his countrymen also to wear shoes.


Moral: Instead of trying to change the world, we should try to change ourselves. You can't expect to change others when you yourself is yet to have the change, that's the world for you.

   Can change happen in an instant?

"Behold, I show you a mystery; We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye ..." CORINTHIANS 15:51


My mentor "Tony Robbins" words on change:

As this man continued to berate my ineffectiveness in "curing" his smoking habit, I wondered what could have gone wrong. Could it be that my ego had outgrown my true level of capability and skill? Gradually I began to ask myself better questions: What could I learn from this situation? What was really going on here? "What happened after we worked together?" I asked him, expecting to hear that he had resumed smoking a week or so after the therapy. It turned out that he'd stopped smoking for two and a half years, after I'd worked with him for less than an hour! But one day he took a puff, and now he was back to his four-pack-a-day habit, plainly blaming me because the change had not endured. Then it hit me: this man was not being completely unreasonable. After all, I had been teaching something called Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Think about the word "programming." It suggests that you could come to me, I would program you, and then everything would be fine. You wouldn't have to do anything! Out of my desire to help people at the deepest level, I'd made the very mistake that I saw other leaders in the personal development industry make: I had begun to take responsibility for other people's changes.

That day, I realized I had inadvertently placed the responsibility with the wrong person—me—and that this man, or any one of the other thousands of people I'd worked with, could easily go back to their old behaviours if they ran into a difficult enough challenge because they saw me as the person responsible for their change. If things didn't work out, they could just conveniently blame somebody else. They had no personal responsibility, and therefore, no pain if they didn't follow through on the new behavior. As a result of this new perspective, I decided to change the metaphor for what I do. I stopped using the word "programming" because while I continue to use many NLP techniques, I believe it's inaccurate. A better metaphor for long-term change is conditioning. This was solidified for me when, a few days later, my wife brought in a piano tuner for our new baby grand. This man was a true craftsman. He worked on every string in that piano for literally hours and hours, stretching each one to just the right level of tension to create the perfect vibration. At the end of the day, the piano played magnificently. When I asked him how much I owed, he said, "Don't worry, I'll drop off a bill on my next visit." My response was, "Next visit? What do you mean?" He said, "I'll be back tomorrow, and then I'll come back once a week for the next month. Then I'll return every three months for the rest of the year, only because you live by the ocean." I said, "What are you talking about? Didn't you already make all the adjustments on the piano? Isn't it set up properly?" He said, "Yes, but these strings are strong; to keep them at the perfect level of tension, we've got to condition them to stay at this level. I've got to come back and re-tighten them on a regular basis until the wire is trained to stay at this level." I thought, "What a business this guy has!" But I also got a great lesson that day. This is exactly what we have to do if we're going to succeed in creating long-term change. Once we effect a change, we should reinforce it immediately. Then, we have to condition our nervous systems to succeed not just once, but consistently. You wouldn't go to an aerobics class just one time and say, "Okay, now I've got a great body and I'll be healthy for life!" The same is true of your emotions and behaviour. We've got to condition ourselves for success, for love, for breaking through our fears. And through that conditioning, we can develop patterns that automatically lead us to consistent, lifelong success. We need to remember that pain and pleasure shape all our behaviours, and that pain and pleasure can change our behaviours. Conditioning requires that we understand how to use pain and pleasure. 

     LESSON

Making a change to something doesn't means it will last forever, you have to work towards the change in other for them to be in a good condition...

According to the first story, the king who wore a leather foot wear,
needs to clean and put it in a good conditions, not that having making the changes, then I have to be wearing it for lifetime, it's not so, cause it will get to a stage whereby you will have to change the foot wear to another one....

If you want to make impact in this world, if you wanna make it a better place, then you have to work towards your aim.

Die Empty

Die Empty


DIE EMPTY

Most people won't understand what I meant by "Die-empty".
When I said you should die empty, am not telling you that you shouldn't eat, so you can die of hunger, 
In this article am gonna explain what I meant by "Die-empty.
Erma Bombeck once said;
"When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, 'I used everything you gave me'."


 There is no one in this world that doesn't have two or more unique abilities, not even one...
Why don't you use them? Use them for humanity, use them for the glory of God.
  Once, there was a young man, he was gifted and talented in several ways, there are so many life he his meant to save, but they all died.. Why?
He had no time to discover his talents, he was busy with the wealth and beauty of this world...
Mark 8:36; "for what shall it profit a man, If he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?"....
Can anyone tell me what was his gain? 
When the world needs him to show forth his talents and gifts, he was busy with materialism, 
And I hope his life will be full of regrets, unless he change for the best...
Dear brothers and sisters,
I want you to liken yourself to a seed...
If a seed is buried, It will generate, wax, and grow much more stronger, 
even if the world underrates you, let that be a challenge for you to bring out the best in you.

Let your obstacles be a stepping stone to your miracles...

And above all, remember to die empty, be humble with your gifts and talents, so you can receive more,
and I pray the ability to do so God will give it to you.

Youths and dreams

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Youths and Dreams

"With acknowledgment of one's own latent capacity and self-assurance in one's capacity, one can assemble a superior world." Dalai Lama 

We as a whole have dreams... We as a whole need to accept where it counts in our spirits that we have an exceptional blessing, that we can have an effect, that we can contact others in an extraordinary manner, and that we can make the world a superior spot. At one time in our lives, we as a whole had a dream for the personal satisfaction that we want and merit. However, for a significant number of us, those fantasies have gotten so covered in the dissatisfaction and schedules of every day life that we not, at this point even put forth an attempt to achieve them. For excessively many, the fantasy has disseminated — and with it, so has the will to shape our fates. Many have lost that feeling of conviction that makes the champ's edge. My life's mission has been to reestablish the fantasy and to make it genuine, to get every one of us to recall and utilize the limitless force that falsehoods dozing inside us all of us. 

At an early age, I fostered a conviction that we're all here to contribute something remarkable, that profound inside every one of us lies an exceptional blessing. I really accept we as a whole encapsulate a dormant beast. Every one of us has an ability, a blessing, our own piece of virtuoso simply standing by to be tapped. It very well may be an ability for craftsmanship or music. It very well may be a unique method of identifying with the ones you love. It very well may be a virtuoso for selling or advancing or connecting in your business or your profession. I decide to accept that our Creator doesn't play top choices, that we've all been made exceptional, yet with equivalent freedoms for encountering life without limit. I chose numerous years prior that the main way I could consume my time on earth is put it in something that would outlive it. I concluded that in some way or another I should contribute here and there that would live on long after I was no more.

LISTS OF SOME NIGERIANS WHO FULFILL THEIR DREAMS



We all should have heard about a young comedian girl called Samuel Success, popularly known as Aunty Success, She came into the industry of Mark Angel Comedies as at 2019. Earlier before now, this little girl was sent away from school, but God use her obstacles has a stepping stones to her success, Watch The Video.




talking about that. Do we still remember  Olajumoke Orisaguna popularly known as; Jumoke The Bread Seller. On that faithful day, she get some bread to sell from bakery, but she turned to become a model. Watch The Video 




Former Gov. Akinwunmi Ambode worked as a civil servant for 27 years,before running for public office as Governor of Lagos State in 2015.





Adeyinka Alaseyori has been singing for some time now, but no one cares to hear her records, not until the pandemic situation whereby everyone has to stay at home, then she sing a song titled







I need you to notice something from the videos of these people I posted,
They all receive divine mercy and authority from above. Let their life be a challenge to you that you might be facing some obstacles right now that made you think you have no dream, never relent keep on pressing forward, because when the time of success is near, You will feel so lazy, and that's why you need to buckle up, so you can acquire the success.

We are not to young to discover and make use of our talents, I knew some people will be like, but i have been making use of my talents here and there yet am still not yet recognized by the world.The answer is simply WAIT FOR YOUR TIME  because the road to success is not an easy path.

 Bruce Lee once said;
  "Do not pray for an easy life, but pray for the strength to overcome obstacles".

Nothing good in this world comes easily,Let's take for an example; The lady that sells bread, i believe that day she would be having doubt weather for her to go out or not, hadn't mean she stays at home on that faithful day, that's how she will lose the divine connection, and the worst part of it is that she might not be able to have that opportunity again till eternity, No one knows the time success will visit,
 so work hard, stay focus, be inspired with your dreams and make them come true.

Youths and relationship


Youths and Relationship

I once met a lady when I was still in high school, she was tall, sexy and beautiful, I approached her and I told her how much I loved her, but she just left me in a state of dilemma, I asked her out almost close to a year, but she didn't give me some response.
Then I get to know from her friends that she met a guy recently, although the guy is not as handsome as me but he has some money, according to her friends, the guy is not up to her standard.
On hearing this, I was tensed and grieve for some months, then I summoned my courage to text her some messages telling her how much I love her and how I would have love to let her be mine,  but she gave me the shocking of my life by just typing a short but powerful word...

This is where I got to realize the psychological facts that; 
people will follow you for only two reasons, either you are beautiful or successful. But people tends to follow the successful ones than the beautiful once... Thats why I use my relationship life as an example.
No matter your age, If you are not rich, your younger ones will call you by your name, your family will address you as a fool, not to talk of a girlfriend, she will blast you off....

And as for ladies who blast guys, telling them they are not up to their standard, I will beseech you to stop,
Why? Because nobody knows tommorow, who knows whether you will get married to him in the future, or maybe you will marry a guy who is not up to his own standard in the future...
Let's take the story of a poor young boy as an example;
He fell so much in love with a beautiful and sexy lady, then he proposed to her,
But the lady rejected him by saying;

 “Listen, your monthly salary is even less than my daily expenses. How can i live with you? How could you even thought of coming to me and ask me?? I can never ever love you. Forget about me and go find someone of your level to get engaged.”

Even after knowing girl’s thought he still loved her and after getting rejected boy left but couldn’t forget her.

10 years later they stumbled into each other in a shopping mall.

Girl recognized him and said, “Hey!! You.. how are you?? I am married now He is very smart and do you know how much my husband’s salary..!! it’s 20,000$ per month. Can you beat that??

Boy eye’s got wet hearing those words from same person. A few seconds later her husband came around.

Before girl could say a word seeing the guy her husband said, “Sir, you are here! you have met my wife.”

“This is my boss. I am one of those working for his 100 million $ project.” husband said looking at his wife.

Husband continued, “He is very good person and do you know my dear, My boss loved a girl but he couldn’t win her heart that’s why he remained unmarried. How lucky would that girl have been, if she married my boss now..!!"

Girl got totally shocked but couldn’t say a word after that....

Life is too short so don’t be too arrogant and proud of yourself and look down on others current situation. Things change time change. Don’t under estimate anyone because everyone can have a great future.
 

How to make money as a youth

 How To Make Money As A YOUTH


HOW TO MAKE MONEY AS A YOUTH

So many youths tends to have the ego of making money and having the believe that they need to make it in a fast and easy way, thereby going to any extend just to make the money... There are so many ways you can make your money even while sitting at home, You don't have to start looking for jobs around you, you don't need to involve yourself in an illegitimate work before you start making the money, you can make money by doing what you love doing, by doing what you have passion for...
In this article I will be listing different legit strategies to make money as a youth,
The point is; It might not make you get rich but it sure will save you some money to get somethings for yourself...

Strategy 1: Start a blog
Becoming a blogger is one of the easiest ways to start making money online, unlike traditional jobs, you are not confined to an office.
Instead, you can work remotely and work your own hours. You can work at any time of the day or night with ease.
However, It is important to know that blogging takes time before you can start earning. We recommend that while you are building the contents on your blog you continue to work your regular day job and work part-time on your blog.
Once your blog is more developed and start making money you can then turn into a full time blogging business.
Blogging is great for people who love writing, expressing their ideas, and sharing their knowledge and expertise on different topics.
TIPS TO KNOW
1. Start a blog about something you are extremely passionate about. For example, If you love traveling and you have visited a lot of places then start a travel blog, or you have the knowledge on fashion and beauty, then start a fashion and beauty blog.
2. It is important to limit your blog to a particular topic and not combine multiple topics to a particular blog.
For instance, you wouldn't want to write to write a fitness tips on a travel blog.
If you have an interest in multiple topics then create a multiple blogging sites for each topics.
3. Use your experience and expertise to create a unique and informative contents. Give your readers more instead of less and write your blog in a way that makes a difference in the lives of your readers.
4. Be open-minded and willing to collaborate with other creatives. You will meet some fantastic and awe-inspiring people.

Strategy 2: Become a telephone mystery shopper
Are you someone who loves talking on the phone and conducting interviews?
Use up your love for talk and earn money as a telephone mystery shopper.
The retail industry is becoming more and more competitive and standing out amongst competitors has proved to be challenging.
As a telephone mystery shopper, you are to call businesses, retail outlets and call centers to inquire and act as a potential customer interested in using their services. Go on by asking all the pertinent information you think will help you improve your company's business operations, such as pricing, delivery and packaging, order management and customer services.
Once you are done, you will write and submit a report based on the information you acquired from your business call.

GREAT WAY TO GET STARTED
The best way to get started is by researching and applying on telephone mystery shopper positions on the following websites:
1. Arllc.com: this site ranges from $3.50-$12 per call, depending on the country and locality. Payments are made through direct bank deposits.
2. Callcenterqr.org: this site pays $5 per call they pay you via PayPal within 48hours
3. Intelichek.com: this site pays $1 per call for beginners with the possibility of getting an increase of as much as $50-$100 per day for experienced telephone mystery shoppers.
4. Pestrat.com: With pestrat you make calls to doctor's offices or medical store's. They may also assign you to visit shops in person. Similarly, you will be asked to submit a detailed report of the information you have gathered through your calls and sites visit. They usually pay between $12 to $17 per call and a higher rate for physical shop visits. payment are made through check.

STRATEGY 3: Be A Proofreader
Are you a Grammer-nazi?
Leverage that and take this great opportunity and start your career as a Proofreader while earning significant sum of money.
In a team of content creators, there's always someone tasked to examine any content before publishing.
Proofreading is scanning any text to find and revise spelling mistakes, grammar, tone and styles that the writer may have overlooked.
GREAT WAY TO GET STARTED
Start your proofreading career by sending in your applications to the following websites:
1.proofreadingservices.com: first take a test of 20mins of 20 questions on basic English and Grammer. Since the applications are dependent on your text score, make sure that you get most of the answers correct. The higher the test score, the more chances of getting selected.

STRATEGY 4: Do affiliate marketing
Affiiliate marketing is performance- based marketing where a business gives a percentage of commission to it's affiliate for every products sold through affiliate links.
TIPS TO KNOW
1. When selecting a product, make sure that the item is in the domain that you are familiar with. The product that you choose should be products that you know how to market.  
Here are websites where you can find products on multiple domains:
                   a. Clickbank.com
                   b. JVZOO.com
                   c. Shareasale.com
2. Choose a product where you can earn at least 50% commission per sale.
3. To earn faster, promote your affiliate links on social media platforms like; Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Reddit, Dig, Stumble upon.

STRATEGY 5: DO EMAIL MARKETING
Emails is one of the most effective marketing strategies tools for business. In 2018, about 80% of business professionals credited customer rentation to email marketing. 80% of Americans were also found to be checking their email at least once a day. In 2019, a total of 3.9 global email users were recorded.
EARN BY:
Sending promotional emails to your subscribers with affiliate links to your products. 
Here are email marketing tools you can use;
MailChimp
Get response
Aweber
Constant contact.

List of other online businesses you can do
1. Do Facebook marketing
2. Sell PLR
3. Get paid for tweeting
4. Teach your native language
5. Join Q&A sites
6. Create a coupon website
7. Sell website on Flippa
8. Start your podcast
9. Start copywriting
10. Become a ghost writer
11. Listen and rate music
12. Do voice acting
13. Do CPA marketing
14. Become an online tutor
15. Sell a service on Fiverr
16. Start a YouTube channel
17. Write poetry
18. Create WordPress theme
19. Sell art and crafts on Etsy
20. Become an Amazon associates
21. Become a graphic designer.

Believe in yourself

                 Have A Positive Mindset


The road to success is not straight, for you to become successful, you have to believe in yourself, you have to have a positive mindset.
That reminds me of the story of a young boy who was crippled by beaten, he thought in himself he couldn't make it that he needs to die, but an elderly man told him, he his not born this way, he can train himself to become whole again, the word of this old man motivated him.
This young boy, whenever alone he would practice yoga, he did it for several years before all his body was set back to normal....
Nothing is impossible, it all depends on your mindset, it all depends on your thinking either positive or negative. 
Change can occur instantly, 
Henry David Thoreau said;
 "Things do not change, we change".
Our success can never be changed, our potentials can never be changed, it can only be affected.
If you have a positive mindset about your success, then you will surely have them, because you think positively,
But if you have a negative one, a doubting mind, then you won't have it....
The Success remains the same but our mentality can affect it either in positive or negative way.

To acquire success as a youth, you need to exercise a lot of patience.
If i had eight hours to chop down a tree I'd spend six hours sharpening my axe, rather than spending six hours to cut a tree all because the axe is not sharpened...
We all want to become successful, everything is about time....
Do not compare your life to others people journey, because he did something and he his successful doesn't mean you will also do it and become successful, wait for your success to come...

Napoleon Hill (born October 26, 1883 – November 8, 1970) was an American self-help author. Napoleon Hill is considered to have influenced more people into success than any other person in history. He has been perhaps the most influential man in the area of personal success.
He once said that; 
"There are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge, both poverty and riches are the offspring of thought.”
Your thought, your mindset determines your success.
Believe in yourself, and walk towards the success, never looks for shortcuts to your success,

Stay focus and the Success you visualize will come your way.

Youths and failure

 

Most people tends to quit a project whenever they get to a point whereby they failed severally.
Thomas Alva Edison (February 11, 1847 – October 18, 1931) was an American Inventor and businessman who held a world record of 1,093 patents, he was dubbed ‘The Wizard Of Menlo Park’. He created the worlds first industrial research laboratory. He invented the light bulb, the motion picture camera, the phonograph, a stock ticker, a battery for electric cars, and numerous other inventions. Edison’s numerous inventions have influenced the world greatly. 

 But what you may not have known, is just how much Thomas Edison had experienced failure in his lifetime before becoming successful. I was listening to the late Greg Plitt’s speech on Edison recently. In which he explained that Edison had been labelled as retarded when he was just a child. He couldn’t speak until he was 4 years old. He was removed from school after being called retarded. He failed at every single job he had, until finally… Edison became a successful inventor. Greg touched on the point that it was perhaps because of his earlier life, that he stuck at inventing things for so long. All his life he’d experienced failure; so when he started failing with every invention he was trying to create at the time, it was just an average day to him. Hence, he kept on going because he loved what he did, and finally succeeded after failing over 1000 times. He was a man who persevered until he succeeded, and he didn’t stop until he got what he wanted. Most people just give up when things get tough, and remain where they are.
Make research on people who are successful today, most of them failed before achieving their aims.
 Failure and success works together..
You have to fail before you acquire your success.. You will surely gets to a stage of failure, a stage of frustration, a stage whereby most people quits, But for you not back off, you need to be motivated by something, there is no successful human that is not motivated by something, it might be a music, it might be someone you are looking up to, it might be a quote and many more, no matter how strong you are, if you get to those listed stages, you will surely back off if you ain't motivated by something... That's why I look at most people who criticize Motivational Speakers, There is nothing in this world that you do that doesn't involve motivational speaking, Any successful business is been motivated by something.

another factors that most people tends to fail is because they can't take the risk, They don't want to give it a try... This world is a war zone, you have to take the risk for you to come out alive...
Talking about business;
most people tends to avoid the borrowing of loans to upgrade their business.... But the truth is, most organizations that is popular today borrows money to upgrade their business.
Mack Zuckerberg started Facebook business at the age of "19" with the aim of making people around to connect together, he code facebook with some of his friends right from his room and also launched it right from his room, he rented a server of (85$)per month, and he funded it by putting an ads on the page as a source of income....
Now here he his well Known as the owner of Facebook, he was not even thinking it is going to be a company,
His goals his to make people connect together.... If you want to be successful, You have to take the risk.


Thomas Edison said; "I started from where the last man stop".
People don't tends to have patient, 
A man brought up an idea on a project, then he engaged in it, in the process he his faced with so many challenges and failures then he intended to back off, then another man pick up this same plan an also engage himself in it, he faced the challenges and failures then he was successful in it, this man is said to start from where the last man stop.
When it seems like you should give up, do not give up cause it only needs more try, the success is near.
Whenever you are into a project and it seems like you are failing over and over again, what you need to do is give it a time, leave for like a month, then go back to it, you won't be surprised to see that you will overcome the failure, that's just the logic...
Instead of you giving up and losing hope on that particular project all because you failed, all you have to do is just give it a lacuna, give it some space, then go back to it, surely success will be yours....
Remember, Thomas Edison use his failure as a form of knowledge...
He has knowledge of 10,000 things that cannot work for a particular project.....
You can also do the same, turn your failure to knowledge and you will always overcome...