Youths and relationship

Youths and Relationship

I once met a lady when I was still in high school, she was tall, sexy and beautiful, I approached her and I told her how much I loved her, but she just left me in a state of dilemma, I asked her out almost close to a year, but she didn't give me some response.

Then I get to know from her friends that she met a guy recently, although the guy is not as handsome as me but he has some money, according to her friends, the guy is not up to her standard.

On hearing this, I was tensed and grieve for some months, then I summoned my courage to text her some messages telling her how much I love her and how I would have love to let her be mine,  but she gave me the shocking of my life by just typing a short but powerful word...

This is where I got to realize the psychological facts that; 

people will follow you for only two reasons, either you are beautiful or successful. But people tends to follow the successful ones than the beautiful once... Thats why I use my relationship life as an example.

No matter your age, If you are not rich, your younger ones will call you by your name, your family will address you as a fool, not to talk of a girlfriend, she will blast you off....

And as for ladies who blast guys, telling them they are not up to their standard, I will beseech you to stop,

Why? Because nobody knows tommorow, who knows whether you will get married to him in the future, or maybe you will marry a guy who is not up to his own standard in the future...

Let's take the story of a poor young boy as an example;

He fell so much in love with a beautiful and sexy lady, then he proposed to her,

But the lady rejected him by saying;

 “Listen, your monthly salary is even less than my daily expenses. How can i live with you? How could you even thought of coming to me and ask me?? I can never ever love you. Forget about me and go find someone of your level to get engaged.”

Even after knowing girl’s thought he still loved her and after getting rejected boy left but couldn’t forget her.

10 years later they stumbled into each other in a shopping mall.

Girl recognized him and said, “Hey!! You.. how are you?? I am married now He is very smart and do you know how much my husband’s salary..!! it’s 20,000$ per month. Can you beat that??

Boy eye’s got wet hearing those words from same person. A few seconds later her husband came around.

Before girl could say a word seeing the guy her husband said, “Sir, you are here! you have met my wife.”

“This is my boss. I am one of those working for his 100 million $ project.” husband said looking at his wife.

Husband continued, “He is very good person and do you know my dear, My boss loved a girl but he couldn’t win her heart that’s why he remained unmarried. How lucky would that girl have been, if she married my boss now..!!"

Girl got totally shocked but couldn’t say a word after that....

Life is too short so don’t be too arrogant and proud of yourself and look down on others current situation. Things change time change. Don’t under estimate anyone because everyone can have a great future.